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Dating Ideas for October
As the leaves turn golden and the nights draw in, autumn in London offers endless opportunities for cosy and adventurous dates.
If you’re dating in your 30s or 40s and looking for something unique to do in London (or just outside), these autumn date ideas are the perfect way to spend quality time with someone special. Whether you’re into nature, film, or seasonal festivities, these four itineraries offer a great mix of activities, food, and culture—with a focus on convenience, safety, and memorable experiences.
Qualities People Are Looking for in a Partner in Their 30s and 40s
Dating in your 30s and 40s comes with a heightened clarity around what you truly value in a partner.
The priorities and preferences shift from surface-level attraction to deeper emotional connections, shared goals, and mutual support.
Based on our data at Twelve Stories, we’ve identified the top qualities that successful singles are looking for in their 30s and 40s—and yes, they’re often much more nuanced than you might think.