How it works

Step One

Step One

All About You

As soon as you’ve signed up, you’ll receive a matching questionnaire to your inbox to help us get to know you.

Step Two

Step Two

Handpicked Match

Our dedicated team will hand-pick a match for you based on everything from your worldview, to how you have fun, your future aspirations and more.

Step Three

Step Three

You’ve Got Mail

Get your match and personalised write up straight to your email inbox. It’ll give you confidence in why you’ve been matched and loads to talk about at your first date.

Step Four

Step Four

Meet Up

Do something fun, find out about each other and enjoy the fact that you’re both there because you’re ready to ditch the apps and date for real.

Step Five

Step Five

Evolve

We get to know you and the people you meet a little better each month via a quick mid-month survey.

The results

“Like most of us. My experience with dating apps has been a somewhat hopeless experience. Trying to filter out scammers, fake profiles, and unrealistic expectations. Never mind the amount of money spent every month. 
In the end when the spotlight is off, what do we want? Care, love and appreciation. And that has to come from a real human that we click with on a personal level. 
You don’t just have one of the best customer services I have ever experienced. You really go beyond with a personal care that has made me feel like you’re a mate now. And it is your mates that are the most successful in hooking you up! And you do. Every month without fail. 
I have met some fantastic people thanks to you. Admittedly, at first it was strange to go and meet a stranger you had not pre-judged from a hyped-up profile so you do need to have some common social skills. But I have had a great experience. 
For me. Knowing that I have a date lined up every month through you has saved me so much time and money and provided peace of mind. So I can focus on my life instead of swiping profiles. 
The fee. Ok, at first, I thought.  “That’s a lot if I can’t even see the person.” But no, it isn’t. I spent more on multiple dating apps per month. I spent hours swiping and the success rate was super poor. You have 100% success in getting you dates every month, and you just need to send an email to say hi. 
You have bills too. And you save us both time and money. 
I can’t recommend this service enough. .”
— Jimi, 40, London

 FAQs

  • In a world of endless choice, intentional dating rejects the idea that this is a numbers game. It demands a more deliberate approach, human intervention, and taking the time to get to know one another with focus. It’s not to say there’s no place for one-night stands, a bit of fun - just not here. We’re looking for adventure, growth and fulfilment. For as long as that works for you.

  • Choose a plan with the right flexibility for you. After that, you’ll get an email with your personality insights questionnaire that helps us start finding someone great to match you with. You’ll also receive a short code of conduct to which we’ll need you to agree. This helps us unite as a community around what we’re here for and helps keep us all safe.

  • Get a personalised match each month; regular insights and tips for successful, meaningful dating; get feedback on your communication skills for continuous improvement. and if you want it - exclusive access to a human dating coach (available as a paid add-on).

  • It takes humans, not apps, to spot the nuance that makes people great together. We’ve conducted (and continue to run) a study of fulfilled and contented pairs that surfaced five critical factors that make people great together. Our matchmakers pick through what you and others share to look for just the right level of alignment and conflict to create something interesting. We’ll seek your monthly feedback to help us get ever closer to someone great for you.

  • London! Let us know where we should go next though.