Choose your plan

Flexi Pass
£40.00
Every month

For times when we’re here n there n everywhere and need ultimate flex. Meet someone great each month.

✓ At least 1 handpicked match per month
✓ Personalised write up as to why you've been matched
✓ Opportunity to offer feedback on your match

Minimum Recommended

Initial Taster Membership (save 25%)
£90.00
Every 3 months

This will feel totally different - you need 3 months to settle in to intentional dating, a totally new approach. Minimum recommended to feel the benefit.

✓ At least 1 handpicked (by humans) match per month
✓ Personalised write up as to why you've been matched
✓ Opportunity to offer feedback on your match
✓ Priority access to free additional matches
✓ Balances great value with some flexibility!
All In Membership (save 29%)
£170.00
Every 6 months

Experience the change. Feel the mental shift of trying a totally new approach. Enjoy the personal elevation that comes from a curious, exploratory approach to dating. 

✓ At least 1 handpicked (by humans) match per month
✓ Personalised write up as to why you've been matched
✓ Get personalised anonymised feedback quarterly
✓ Priority access to free additional matches
✓ Best value!

The results

“An antidote to endless swiping - just real, excellent humans handpicked just for me.”

— K, London

 FAQs

  • In a world of endless choice, slow dating rejects the idea that this is a numbers game. It demands a more deliberate approach, human intervention, and taking the time to get to know one another with focus. It’s not to say there’s no place for one-night stands, a bit of fun - just not here. We’re looking for adventure, growth and fulfilment. For as long as that works for you.

  • Choose a plan with the right flexibility for you. After that, you’ll get an email with your personality insights questionnaire that helps us start finding someone great to match you with. You’ll also receive a short code of conduct to which we’ll need you to agree. This helps us unite as a community around what we’re here for and helps keep us all safe.

  • Get a personalised match each month; regular insights and tips for successful, meaningful dating; get feedback on your communication skills for continuous improvement. and if you want it - exclusive access to a human dating coach (available as a paid add-on).

  • It takes humans, not apps, to spot the nuance that makes people great together. We’ve conducted (and continue to run) a study of fulfilled and contented pairs that surfaced five critical factors that make people great together. Our matchmakers pick through what you and others share to look for just the right level of alignment and conflict to create something interesting. We’ll seek your monthly feedback to help us get ever closer to someone great for you.

  • London! Let us know where we should go next though.